Affirmation
I am confident in my decision making.
Lucky Color
Grey
Lucky Numbers
7, 21, 346, 3343
Overall Themes
This will be a month where we really need to let go of some control and go with the flow of things. It seems like we have a strong vision of what we want to manifest which is great, however, we need to stay flexible so we don’t exhaust ourselves.
The cards warn us about being overly stubborn and defensive when it comes to what we are building. You could find yourself in a bit of denial when it comes to the facts vs. what your heart is set on. Whatever ends up happening, you should make sure not to overdo things and overwhelm yourself. Don’t be so picky. Just because something isn’t “perfect” doesn’t mean it can’t be enjoyed.
It’s also important this month to ask for help and be resourceful. In October, we are being blessed with a spiritual level of guidance and healing. There is some kind of spiritual protection over us. When uncomfortable feelings or annoying patterns pop back up in your life, don’t be afraid to observe them. There is potential for new awareness and breakthroughs this month. These realizations can call back your inner power.
Since we may feel the need to reevaluate what we will actually be able to achieve this month, this means that we may see this in other people as well. There could be some disappointment with deals falling through or someone pulling out of a connection in someway.
Although this can bring up some hard emotions, it’s important to recognize that what we really want and need is likely stability and structure. If something or someone proves they can’t offer that, then it’s not necessarily a bad thing because then we are able to move onto something more promising.
Overall, there is a message that things will get better and happier times are coming. Remember to have fun this month! Purposefully do things that make you feel good.
Health and Wellness
There’s certainly a pattern with the cards I’m already seeing for this month. There are some decisions we will be faced with that may cause us some stress. Though it may be tricky or hard, we are being encouraged to highly consider changing our minds on some prior commitment we have made.
It’s okay to back out of something you previously agreed to do. Be willing to make other’s a little uncomfortable if it means saving yourself from being overburdened and stressed out. You can still deliver the news in a polite way. Have faith that whatever follows was meant to be revealed to you.
Above all else, know yourself, respect yourself, and your limitations. You are not obligated to everyone and everything all the time. If participating in something with someone else means you suffer, then it’s just not worth it. Protect your time and energy this month.
And again, have some fun this month! Things might get emotionally heavy so it’s important to balance that out.
Spirituality
This month is all about working on your inner self. There is something about you that your subconscious desperately wants you to see right now. This is not an easy task as you may be faced with hard truths and asked to accept your current reality. These moments of clarity can be used as a starting place for real and important change to begin.
I recommend mirror magick for this month. You may look into different techniques if you wish to, or you can keep it simple. When you are alone, get in front of a mirror and observe yourself (especially your face). Do it long enough to really see yourself and let any masks fall away. Just observe what feelings come up. Acknowledge thoughts that come up. Learn what you can from them. Make peace with yourself and your life the way it is now.
Use this as a tool to help you move forward in a new way instead of falling into an emotional trap. Acknowledge all the good blessings about yourself and your life too.
Relationships
I’m not sure if it’s because scorpio season is starting this month or if it’s the fact that there will be a Mercury and Venus retrograde starting, or all of that, but you can expect some drama. Those common mercury retrograde themes of miscommunication and confusion are here in the cards. We may be having some problems at home with family. People are coming off as demanding and/or inauthentic. You may witness manipulation and unnecessary cruelty.
These things may not directly involve you at first but someone may challenge you or try to get you involved. Our advice is to be like a cat. Stay aloof and independent. Keep your peace, dignity, and power by simply not participating. Choose your battles, don’t let other’s choose them for you. Do not forget your power to choose your actions. Stray from the group and go do something fun all by yourself.
Just like a cat, you can swiftly exit the scene and disappear to go sunbath in your secret spot.
Work and Money
There is some kind of fresh start happening in your work environment this month. Overall there’s themes of assessment and evaluation but also a lot of joy and happiness.
One specific message I’m getting is that there could be a change in management that is for the better. Especially if you were dealing with a toxic manager or boss or just poor communication within leadership. Some people around you may be mourning the change but I think you’ll be happy with it.
There may be a period of waiting for things to transition to the new or for things to get going in a new direction. This could also mean that you decide to have a sudden change of direction in career. This new direction feels a lot more fitting for you.
Something is being renewed in someway. Maybe you’ll find out your job or income is now secured for a certain amount of time which brings relief. Perhaps you’ll look into finances and investments and find that everything is working out better than you thought.
The Unexpected
You may be unexpectedly writing or reading something this month that will be significant.
There is also a message coming up here about an enemy. This would be someone who was very dishonorable and does not work well with other people. They care most about themselves and they don’t care who they hurt in order to get what they want.
There is some justice and karma happening in this situation. It could be related to a legal matter or people coming together as a team to bring out the truth of a situation. You may even become a part of that team. Logic and teamwork are on your side in some situation this month.
Advice for Creatives
If you’ve been facing some kind of resistance or procrastination when it comes to a creative project or business, it’s important to sit with yourself and figure out why. There is a lesson for us to learn here.
One way to combat any blockages is to figure out how to have fun with your work. Reframe the task in your mind to see it as play. Perhaps you can better incorporate something you love into the project. Can you listen to something fun while you work? Or even have an interesting tv show playing in the background. Or change the topic to something that is fascinating you right now.
Another thing you can do is something completely different and wacky. Getting experimental can keep things interesting. Lastly, enjoy every little success you have along the way.
-Tabitha